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Three ways to take a baby away from the pediatrician


Breastfeeding is a very important process, both for the mother and for the baby, because it means not only feeding the baby, saturating his body with nutrients, but also a kind of contact, which is accompanied by love, caress and care.

When the baby is at her mother's breast, she feels protected and needed. But there comes a time when any mother thinks about how to wean the child from the breast, and it is desirable that this process be painless for the baby and the mother herself.

First of all it is necessary to understand that the mother herself is morally and physically ready to wean the baby from the breast. If we consider the psychological factor, only the mother can decide when she needs to stop such contact with the baby.

The production of breast milk is directly related to the maternal instinct, if the mother feels that this process has become unpleasant for her, thoughts have arisen - “when is it over” and “how much is possible”, then the child will feel it.

After all, before his mother's breast for him was a place of warmth and comfort, affection and care, and now he feels disgust and anger, this can lead to a deep psychological trauma to the child. That is why the psychological factor is so important.

It happens and, on the contrary, when the mother refuses to breastfeed the child, but feels constant remorse of conscience, that the child is suffering and upset.

This condition of the mother is fraught with late post-natal depression. Based on this, the conclusion is that the mother will only be able to determine when it is time to stop breastfeeding, so that this happens smoothly, and the baby can easily switch to other forms of contact with adults.

And yet, in order to successfully complete the process, you need to know the approximate dates, at what age you need to wean the baby from the breast. There are no clearly defined values, but knowledge of the lactation process can simplify the whole process, avoiding periods when weaning the baby from the breast can be the most dangerous and lead to complications in the health of the mother and the child.

Stage of lactation

  1. The first stage of lactation is formation. Usually it starts a couple of months before the birth of a child, and ends approximately 2-3 months after birth. At this time, the preparation of the mammary gland of a woman for milk production is carried out. By the end of the first period, swelling and pain in the chest may appear, which are quite understandable and not dangerous, but more often than not, mothers are frightened and give up breastfeeding, transferring the baby to artificial compounds.
  2. Mature lactation. At this time, the mammary gland is already fully adapted to the needs of the child, it produces exactly the amount of milk that the baby needs, the mother does not have to express milk or, conversely, turn to bait.
  3. Stage of involution. It starts at about 1.5-2.5 years of a child's life. This stage is very easy to distinguish from the rest, because it is at this time that breast milk begins to resemble colostrum. This is because the mother's body begins to produce a large amount of antibodies and hormones that prepare the baby for independent feeding.

Naturally, the stage of involution of lactation - this is the period when you can quickly and painlessly wean the child.

Many studies show that babies who were weaned during this period do not get sick for several months and become quite strong, and, on the contrary, children weaned a year or earlier can often get sick during the whole next year. develop worse.

As we have said, the period of involution begins in 1.5-2.5 years after the birth of a child. But you should not stop feeding the baby with the first symptoms of the onset of this stage, because at the beginning of the involution, the mother’s milk is most filled with useful substances that prepare the baby’s body for independent living.

Best of all, if you consider the process of weaning from the breast together with your doctor, who, depending on the state of the mother and the child’s development, will be able to choose the safest way.

Young mothers who have decided to wean their children from breastfeeding before the onset of the involution stage will expect unpleasant surprises - the breast may overflow and be susceptible to the occurrence of seals, even mastitis.

There is no one way that allows you to wean the baby from breastfeeding. However, no one claims that they will be painless and psychologically safe for your crumbs.

  • Often, grandmothers and aunts strongly recommend this method: smear the nipple with mustard, they say, try it once - no longer want to try such a bitter chest. Yes, the method can and is effective, but imagine what trauma such a drastic change to the mother can turn out for the child. After all, he was accustomed to such a source of food and affection, which gave him a sense of security and peace. And now it is not. Such emotional stress can be a difficult period in a child’s life.
  • Another way is to tell the baby that it hurts his mother to feed him, to heighten the effect, you can brush the nipple with brilliant green. This method also sometimes works, but do not forget that children are vulnerable beings, they very strongly and sincerely empathize with the suffering of the mother. Therefore, if your child is psychologically weak, then it is better to abandon this method.
  • There is also another method - it is better to leave for the period of mother's weaning. This can last a week or 10 days. Such a method remains controversial, because a long separation from the child is a psychological trauma for both the child and the mother. But, indeed, often, upon returning home, the child rejoices at the mother and no longer recalls the breast.
  • So is there a way to really help wean a child? There is, but it takes time and patience. The main thing is not to try to abruptly stop breastfeeding, reduce it gradually, for example, replacing breast milk with a supplement every few days.
  • In the event that the baby is naughty and refuses to complete the supplement, try pumping breast milk into a bottle or mug and giving it to the baby. Maybe it will be better if the child is given a bottle by his father or someone from relatives.
  • It is necessary to refuse night food at the very last moment, when during the day the child eats quite calmly without mother's milk. Most likely there will be such a night, in which it will be difficult for you to calm the baby, not letting him to the breast, but if you have made such a decision, then you need to go to the end. It would be better if the baby is calmed by the father, not the mother, so as not to cause the child to be tempted too much.

Remember that together with all “possible”, the child should receive his first “impossible”, and even better if he receives it from you, smoothing out this process of becoming motherly affection and love.

When to wean off?

The process of feeding with breast milk can drag on for years.

According to WHO, the recommended age of breastfeeding is 2 years. Indeed, after a year of life, the child becomes immune, and milk contributes to its better development.

Kristina, 25 years old: “I think that the optimal age for stopping breastfeeding is about 1, 5 years. My daughter already went to kindergarten at this age, that's why I decided. We managed it quite easily. "

Of course, the ideal time to stop breastfeeding is when the child abandons his delicacy on his own, but few mothers wait for this period.

The recommendations of the educational psychologist will help to figure out how to teach a child to a bottle.

Signs that the baby and mother are ready for weaning

  1. The child has doubled his weight since birth.
  2. Gets all types of lure.
  3. A baby can survive without breast milk for 12 hours or more.
  4. The baby does not suck the nipple, fingers, bottles.

In order to wean the baby from breastfeeding, there is three ways:

  • separation of mother and child
  • drug method
  • planned, gradual, soft.

How to properly and gradually wean the child from the breast?

  1. If you have excluded these four points, then you can safely prepare for excommunication. Begin with the refusal of one feeding. Choose which one is better for mom.

Distract the kid with games, walks in the fresh air. Include dad and grandmother in the weaning process. The child should feel your care, love.

  • Observe the child for three days. As a rule, the rejection of one baby feeding is well tolerated.
  • On the expiration of three days we pass to the refusal already from two feedings.
  • And so, gradually, we completely remove the daily feedings.
  • About refusal of feedings in the evening and at night we will talk below.
  • Do not replace the breasts with bottles and nipples. So you do not get rid of the desire to suck the baby. Use cups, drinking bowls.

    Take the child more often in your arms. Do not undress in the presence of a child.

    Natalia, 30 years old: “When I started to wean my baby, I tried to surround her with care. We walked a little longer, distracted by games. ”

    Of course, it is more difficult to excommunicate when the child is already over a year old, and he understands a lot. On the one hand, it is difficult to explain that “sisyu cannot”, but it is possible to agree with some children.

    How to wean a child from the chest at night?

    Probably the worst thing for any nursing mother - the problem is how the baby will fall asleep without a breast. After all, most children fall asleep during sucking, as this is a very energy-intensive process. How to disaccustom the child from night feedings? Will consider Some tips:

    1. Create rituals in which the child will fall asleep - a bedtime story, evening kefir, off lights. You can leave the night light, which the kid specifically chooses himself.
    2. Often, children love to fall asleep under her mother's lullaby.
    3. Bathe the baby before bedtime. You can use soothing herbs - chamomile, valerian root.
    4. You can replace the process of sucking on motion sickness on the arms, pressed to the chest.
    5. Try to put the baby separately in your crib. When the baby sleeps with you, he smells milk and will be even more naughty.

    At night, 2 - 3 hours before bedtime, you can feed the baby porridge, give kefir. Sleep well on a full stomach. Weaning at night is a long process, be patient.

    "Pill" against women's milk or how to quickly wean a baby from the breast?

    If it is difficult for you to tolerate for a long time and prepare for gradual weaning, and you want to quickly repel this habit from a baby, then there are medications for lactation suppression on the modern market as soon as possible.

    A prominent representative of this group is the drug Dostinex.

    Its action is based on reducing the production of the hormone prolactin, which is responsible for the production of milk. The drug has a selective effect, does not affect other hormones.

    Its disadvantage is the side effects that occur in 70% of cases. This is palpitations, headaches, nausea, vomiting, worsening of general well-being, apathy.

    This drug is taken on ½ tablet with an interval of 12 hours for two days. The course is used only for the treatment of disorders associated with excessive production of prolactin.

    Elena, 25 years old: “I learned from my gynecologist how to stop breastfeeding with the help of Dostinex. 2 months after giving birth I needed to go to work. One pill solved my lactation issues. True, there was a very strong headache and weakness in the whole body, but it passed literally in a couple of days. The milk is gone. ”

    Another drug in this series is Bromocriptine. It also reduces the secretion of prolactin and suppresses physiological lactation. Unlike Dostinex, it must be drunk off course. It has more pronounced side effects.

    Weaning by the method of separation

    This is one of the less pleasant ways to wean. It lies in the fact that the child is sent to live with her grandmother or other relatives for a few days. During this time, the child is not enough to lose the breast, so also does not see his beloved mother. This can cause severe psychological discomfort in the baby and, as a result, stress and hidden insult to the mother.

    How to cope with lactostasis?

    Of course, weaning is stress not only for the child, but also for the mother.

    A nursing woman may begin to hurt her breasts, harden.

    You can cope with these symptoms. in the following way:

    • if you feel breast swelling, you can express it manually or with a breast pump to relieve the condition,
    • attach the cabbage leaf for a couple of hours, softening it before that. Better to be cold. It will ease the symptoms
    • you can drink No-shpu or Paracetamol,
    • a warm shower will also help in facilitating breast emptying,
    • gentle massage of the mammary glands from the base to the nipple.

    Weaning is a complex, multi-step process in which both mom and dad should be involved. The most important thing for your child to feel your care and love. Do not scold the baby if he is crying, naughty at the moment of his life. Keep calm and the question of how to wean off, will be solved soon.

    She graduated from YuUGMU, internship in pediatrics, residency in pediatric cardiology, since 2012 she has been working at MC Lotos, Chelyabinsk.

    32 comments on the article “Three ways to wean a child away from a pediatrician”

    Itself is just puzzled by the question of weaning. Daughter and a half years. As introduced by lure, gradually replaced all daytime feeding. But then my daughter was sick, there were days when I did not eat anything except my chest. This afternoon the breast may require again. Night does not ask for a long time, sleeps. Tied to me strongly, so the separation option is not about us, and there is no one to give it to.
    I want to turn down the GW in the summer, I’m fed up with it myself. And my daughter disgustingly eats ordinary food.

    I have a daughter for her for a year and 3 months, she doesn’t eat regular food either, she sucks, but I don’t often know what to do ... But weaning is a problem for us.

    I have two children and both times I used the method of gradual weaning. She fed children to almost 1.6 years, and about a month before the expected weaning began to gradually reduce the number of feedings. She didn’t even feed at night, at night, only kefir or water. As a result, the children threw their chest themselves. And this method is painless for me, since I am a “dairy” mother, and the amount of milk is gradually reduced and burns out.

    Good article. My child is 1.8 months old. My daughter woke up very often at night, I became a “zombie” mother, during the day I asked for “si” about and without, and there was less milk. The child fell asleep only under the breast and if she woke up at night, she could not sleep herself. It is time to wrap up. She also decided to excommunicate gradually. In the beginning, I was very worried that it would not work, because my daughter very often asked for "si" and would give a hysteric, if she did not receive it, she could even beat me for it sometimes. The whole process took 3 weeks.
    1st day: during the day, left feeding, before bedtime and night feeding.
    2nd day: as on the 1st day (the child was distracted in all possible ways, the most effective as it turned out - wava))) said that sis wawa, smeared sis with green paint with her daughter. As soon as my daughter asked for "si", I said that Sis Wawa, she nodded with understanding and went about her business).
    3rd day: removed feeding before the daytime sleep, left before the nighttime sleep and at night (I had to rock for a daytime sleep).
    4-9th day: night feeding and feeding before bedtime (gradually the child began to ask less for “si” by day).
    From the 10th day I gradually tried to reduce the number of attachments at night (although my daughter started to sleep a little better at night).
    By the 14th day, there was only feeding before bedtime (at night, always kept yogurt and tea beside her, replaced her nipples with drinking bowls with a spout).
    After 14 days she applied about 30 minutes before bedtime. Then he pumped up and the child fell asleep on the bed next to me. Further removed and feeding before bedtime.
    As a result, the child became more calm and independent, he began to sleep better at night. I have almost no milk, I do not feel tides. I hope my experience will be someone to help)

    And the milk disappears by itself, or do you still need to decant?

    When to wean a child?

    Opinions of experts about this diverge. Some believe that after a year there are no nutrients in breast milk and the continuation of lactation does not make sense. Others advocate that the baby should be fed as long as possible. In this case, the child himself refuses to breast to three or four years. How to be moms who plan to go to work? Parents should make their own decisions. All pediatricians agree on one thing: everything must be done so that lactation is preserved for up to 12 months.

    At what age to wean the child from the breast? If the child is weak, born premature, often sick, lactation is recommended to keep as long as possible. Experts are right that the nutrients in breast milk are not enough for the full development of the infant. At the same time, it contains immunoglobulins that promote the health of the child. While the baby is breastfed, there is a much lower chance of encountering dangerous infections.

    Ранее отлучение ребенка от груди всегда связано со стрессом. При этом страдает не только малыш, но и мама. Для женщины это ужасные болевые ощущения в груди. Нередко молодые мамы сталкиваются с застоем молока, лактостазом. Дети же получают психологическую травму. Why are they taken away from what they enjoy? After all, a mother’s breast for a baby is not only a source of nutrition, but also a sedative. During sucking the baby forgets discomfort and fear.

    How to wean a baby from the breast correctly? It becomes clear that the termination of lactation for the infant is associated with a blow to the immune system. Therefore, many experts recommend to complete feeding in the demi-season. April or October is ideal. In winter it is too cold, and the baby can catch a cold. In the summer, the risk of intestinal infections increases.

    As for age, everything is individually. If possible, it is necessary to feed a child up to three years. But even if after a year the lactation is completed correctly, no problems will arise.

    Typical mistakes moms

    How to quickly wean a child from the breast? Very simple! You can smear the nipple with brilliant green or mustard. Will the baby want to return to the breast? Most likely no. But such actions will certainly lead to unpleasant consequences. The fright of the child will not be in vain. Psychological trauma can cause stuttering, isolation, speech disorders. How to spread the breast to wean the child? Nothing! Such actions will only cause harm.

    Many older women advise their daughters and daughters-in-law to leave for a few days to complete breastfeeding. This technique will really help a young mother easier to go through a difficult period. But the baby will have to go through all the same psychological trauma.

    Replacing classic breast attachments with a bottle of the mixture is another common mistake. You can do this only if lactation must be abruptly stopped due to the state of health of the mother. Otherwise, the process should take place gradually. Baby breastfeeding translates into a complete meal. The use of mixtures is not necessary.

    If the child himself refuses to breast

    Sometimes it happens that the baby refuses to breast. This can happen for several reasons. Most often this happens after the baby tries water or milk from a bottle. After all, with the help of this device, it is much easier to “get food”. If the child refuses to breast closer to 10 months, do not panic. At this age, the baby can be easily transferred to adult food - cereals, vegetable soups, dairy products.

    What to do if baby is less than 6 months? If attempts to offer a breast to a child are unsuccessful, you can continue to decant and offer baby milk from a bottle. Transfer of the baby into a mixture - an extreme measure.

    Pills to complete lactation

    Before weaning a child from the breast a year, many mothers study a lot of information. Not all consult with professionals, prefer to discuss the problem on the forums on the Internet. Often you can find recommendations for the use of special pills for the rapid cessation of lactation. Such drugs are actually offered in pharmacies. However, they are not intended for young mothers. These pills help to stop lactation, which occurs on the background of hormonal or other disorders in the body.

    Drug suppression of milk production may be shown to young mothers in exceptional cases. So, if there are health problems that do not allow to continue feeding, while the milk continues to be produced in large quantities. Only a doctor can prescribe special pills.

    Gradual cessation of lactation

    How to wean a child from the breast? The process may not be difficult at all, but rather long. Abrupt completion of lactation - a mistake that makes 80% of moms. Every woman breastfeeding comes a moment when it seems that there is no more strength. Sleepless nights, lack of free time - all this causes negative emotions. At this stage, many mothers decide to abruptly stop lactation. Such a manifestation of selfishness can lead to bad consequences.

    How to wean a baby from the breast gradually? How long can the whole process take? Such questions arise in women who decide to go the right way. Here everything is individual. It all depends on the immunity of the baby, as well as his temperament. The entire process of completing lactation can take up to 6 months. The older the child, the easier it is to cope with the task. In some cases, it is possible to negotiate with the baby in just a few weeks.

    Planned cessation of lactation should be such that full completion of the process occurs in early spring or autumn. By the year the child usually has a feeding schedule. Mom should gradually replace classic attachments with regular meals.

    Last night feeding we remove

    Feeding a baby at night tires the young mother the most. It is from such attachments that many women seek to give up in the first place. Indeed, after the baby stops taking the breast during sleep, the night becomes calmer, without awakening. But those who do not know how to wean a child from the breast a year correctly, it is worth understanding that at night lactation is very important.

    There is another mistaken view that food at night overloads the infant's stomach. This is justified only in relation to the mixtures, porridges, compotes or kefir. Mother's breast milk can not harm the baby, no matter how many times it is applied overnight.

    Nightly awakening in babies breastfed is the norm. An infant up to one year old can wake up two to four times. In winter, the number of attachments may increase. Central heating dries the air, the baby can be thirsty. This is another reason why it is not recommended to plan weaning for the winter period.

    What is useful for night feedings? Why abandon them should be the last? First, it is at night that prolactin is produced - a hormone responsible for lactation. In the absence of night feeds, the amount of milk in the breast decreases sharply. Secondly, an infant under one year old who eats mother's milk at night fully satisfies the need for food and drink. Such children have strong immunity, gain weight well, rarely get sick.

    Separate attention deserves the habit of laying the baby to sleep with the breast. Closer to the year in feeding just before bedtime there is no need. It’s enough for a baby to sing a song, to tell a fairy tale, to stroke the back. How to wean a child from the breast before going to bed? It is simply not to offer feeding for several days. During the week will be able to completely get rid of the habit.

    Replacing night feeds

    Stopping lactation, some mothers decide to offer baby food to a friend instead of breast milk. Before you wean the child from the breast, it is worth understanding the goals. Mom does not want to get up at night? Does the child have restless sleep? Then replacing the breast with another food will not give any result. Moreover, the preparation of a bottle with a mixture or kefir requires more effort.

    While the baby is ready to go to the common table, he no longer needs nightly feeding. Any food will be digested incorrectly at night. Many babies who eat kefir or semolina at night suffer from overweight. What to do when you wean a child from the breast? The maximum that you can offer your baby is a bottle of water. It is not excluded that the crumb is thirsty.

    It is recommended to refuse to feed the child immediately before bedtime. Nothing should interfere with the crumbs normally fall asleep. If the child falls asleep at 9 pm, the last feeding should be planned for 7-8 hours.

    Inconsistency is a huge mistake.

    How can we wean a baby from the breast correctly and as quickly as possible? First of all, the mother must finally decide on the completion of lactation. Of course, the baby will be capricious, demanding breasts. To endure children's tears is very difficult. Some mothers break down and give the baby a breast for several feedings. Then excommunication begins from the beginning. This inconsistency does not give good results. The baby already from an early age realizes that tears help manipulate mom. The woman also delays the process of completing lactation for several months.

    The first thing that a young mother should do before weaning a child from the breast is to prepare psychologically for a laborious process. Difficult few weeks will have to endure. Avoid them will not succeed if a woman wants to complete lactation relatively quickly. It is important not to succumb to the feeling of guilt in front of the baby or children's moods. Disruption will not benefit either the mother or the child.

    Natural completion of lactation

    How to wean a baby from breastfeeding at night? How to quickly suppress lactation? Such questions arise in women who plan to stop the natural process before the due time. The natural end of lactation is the most appropriate choice. This happens when the mother's body is fully ready to stop breastfeeding, and the baby does not need maternal immunoglobulins. When does this happen? Here everything is individual. Some children themselves refuse to breast already in two years, some have to feed up to four. And there is nothing scary!

    Proper completion of breastfeeding is a natural process. With age, the baby has new activities, interesting hobbies. All the nutritional elements it receives from an adult table. Every day there are less and less attachments. Accordingly, the milk in the maternal breast is produced in smaller quantities. Gradually lactation fades away. Once the baby completely forgets about the breast, he no longer needs it.

    But even if the mother made the decision to naturally complete breastfeeding, you should follow some rules. A child older than two years must be explained that feeding is an intimate process and it is impossible to demand a “sisy” in public places or with outsiders. The baby must clearly understand the rules of breastfeeding. Ideally, in the last months of feeding only nighttime attachments will remain. Thus, the crumb receives all the nutrients from products from the common table and strengthens the immune system due to lactation.

    Weaning should not be associated with stress. Often, mothers decide to complete lactation when the baby goes to kindergarten. It is not right. The baby is under severe stress. At this time, the number of attachments, on the contrary, should be increased.

    For those who want to complete lactation before the child begins to attend pre-school, the process should begin in a few months. Initially, daily application is removed, then night.

    Breastfeeding after three years

    In 80% of cases, lactation ends naturally closer to three years of a child. Breastmilk is a valuable source of proteins, carbohydrates and fats. If the mother eats properly, there is nothing wrong with lactation. Especially useful for prolonged lactation for painful children, babies suffering from allergies. In addition, scientists argue that long-term feeding has a positive effect on the formation of the maxillofacial apparatus.

    Lactation is useful not only for the child, but also for the mother. Statistics indicate that breast cancer is much lower in women who breastfeed their babies for more than a year. In addition, lactation reduces the risk of coronary heart disease, improves the emotional state of the young mother.

    In some cases, it happens that the child is not going to give up his chest even after three years. Attachment to the mother leads to the fact that the woman can not lead a full life, she can not go to work, to meet with friends. Such a situation is possible if the young mother initially built the wrong behavior strategy. It allows the child to be naughty, to demand the breast at any opportunity. If you can not agree with the baby, you should think about stopping lactation.

    The process of stopping breastfeeding is all individually. It will be completely painless if mom does everything right. Whims, lactostasis, stress - all this is a consequence of abrupt improper termination of breast feeding. If you can not cope with the task yourself, you should use the help of a breastfeeding consultant.

    Feeding periods

    For a painless failure, it is not enough just to make a decision and start acting. It is necessary to choose the ideal time for the crumb to calmly end the termination of feeding mother's milk. The end of lactation depends on how long breastfeeding lasts, since for everyone it proceeds according to an individual scenario. Lactation lasts several stages:

    1. The origin of lactation begins during pregnancy, when the female body is rebuilt and is preparing for the birth of a baby. After the birth of a child, the formation does not stop, but continues to gain momentum. Many mothers remember periods of reduced or increased milk production, which indicates the formation of the process.
    2. Lactation maturity is the most harmonious and relaxed stage, because the volume of breast milk fully meets the needs of the baby (we recommend reading: breastmologist's advice on how to stop feeding with breast milk). The period can last up to 1.5-2.5 years. The duration depends on the emotional state of the mother and her willingness not to refuse breastfeeding.
    3. The final stage of involution is accompanied by a decrease in the volume of milk and a decrease in its quality. Due to an insufficient amount of important nutrients, the peanut may demand breast more often, but satiety does not come. The feeling of hunger affects the child's behavior, and the mother feels tired and lethargic. Constant attachment of the baby to the breast can be accompanied by pain in the nipples and irritation, which signals the futility of further breastfeeding.

    Optimal periods for stopping natural feeding

    In Soviet times, it was considered normal to wean a child at a very early age. Women went to work early, and the decree did not last long, so sometimes we had to wean even at 10 months. Popular literature of that era offered recommendations that are unacceptable for modern mothers:

    • Breastfeeding should last no more than 12 months.
    • It was possible to stop lactation by almost barbaric method, tied up tightly mammary glands (we recommend to read: how to properly tie up breast milk at home?).

    Modern experts insist on maintaining mature lactation for two years, and in the absence of discomfort and contraindications - up to 3.

    At this time it is best to wean from the breast, because both the mother and the crumb are ready to break the "milk" bond. Ordinary food has already firmly entered the children's diet, and the useful immunoglobulins were obtained by the child during this period in sufficient quantities. The immune system of a two-year-old child is distinguished by its stability, in contrast to a one-year-old baby, who was decided to be weaned dramatically.

    In reality, it is not always possible to conduct a waiver of breastfeeding in the optimal period for this. Sometimes you have to do it on an emergency basis because of the sudden illness of a nursing woman. If the treatment includes medications that are incompatible with natural feeding, the latter should be discarded. There are often situations when a woman is forced to go to work to ensure the filling of the family budget.

    Termination of lactation and possible consequences

    Various external factors and life circumstances can affect the weaning decision. Before the final conclusion, the mother will be useful to know about the upcoming risks:

    1. Child up to six months. During this period, breastfeeding is indispensable, since the baby’s body is not able to perceive and absorb other foods. With my mother's milk comes all the necessary substances and trace elements. The termination of lactation should not be motivated only by the personal whim of a woman due to the serious harm to the health of the infant (we recommend reading: should you express your teeth when lactation stops: tips). A weighty reason may be medical indications: the mother's illness and its treatment with certain drugs, the illness of the child, accompanied by separation from the mother. However, in these cases, experts recommend practicing pumping and then continuing natural feeding.
    2. A child from 6 to 12 months. One-year-old baby with mother's milk receives ¾ important substances for normal development. Lure is still difficult to call a full-fledged diet, because it is an addition to breastfeeding.
    3. Baby from year to one and a half. From this point on, the mother may think about stopping feeding if the amount of milk has decreased or if discomfort has arisen. Health risks of crumbs are practically absent.
    4. Two year olds and older. There is a natural completion of lactation, so weaning will be painless.

    Специалисты по налаживанию грудного кормления рекомендуют сохранять лактацию, пока малышу не исполнится хотя бы полтора года. Мамам нужно учитывать, что ближе к 3 годам отучать кроху уже сложней.

    Если женщина хочет и может кормить ребенка долго, то примерно к двухлетнему возрасту молоко начнет иссякать естественным образом, и отлучение будет легким

    Как определить готовность малыша к переменам?

    Все рассмотренные факторы больше касались оптимального времени для маминой физиологии, но необходимо учитывать и желания карапуза. На это могут указывать многие признаки:

    • возраст полтора года и старше,
    • the main milk teeth have already appeared,
    • The diet consists of complementary foods, and my mother's milk is more like a treat or dessert,
    • the baby is not happy with tantrums if the mother refuses to give the breast,
    • going to bed is accompanied by a melodic lullaby or a fairy tale reading, rather than sucking a breast.

    In the presence of these signs, weaning will pass without stress and psychological trauma. However, there are a number of contraindications for the onset of breast failure, as warned by Komarovsky:

    1. In spring and summer it is better to postpone the changes in eating habits. In the spring, flu viruses run rampant, and ORVI is easy to earn on a walk. In the summer, the main danger is considered to be intestinal infections, and from these troubles the child can save only mother's milk. The exception may be only a two-year-old child and older.
    2. Before weaning a child from breastfeeding, you need to make sure that he does not cut new teeth. The best remedy for stress, pain and reduced immunity will be the breast of the mother.
    3. On the eve of moving, traveling and long journeys also excommunication cannot be planned.
    4. You should not experiment with refusal and if the baby is in a bad mood for a long time.
    5. Since the end of the disease has not been a month.

    Popular failure modes

    There are two options for weaning a baby from breastfeeding:

    Smooth cancellation of up to a year includes the obligatory phased replacement of milk with an adapted mixture:

    1. The baby may refuse to take the bottle, demanding the breast when mom is nearby. It is advisable to ask your grandmother or spouse to feed the baby first time until he gets used to it.
    2. The number of meals should be gradually reduced. First you need to remove the day "snack", and evening and night feeds go in the last turn.
    3. Excommunication in such an early period the child will most likely perceive painfully, therefore it is impossible to deprive him of communication and contact with his mother. It is possible to take hands more often, but at the same time the clothes should be closed so that the baby cannot reach the breast.
    4. There is a good reason why weaning is better at the time of weaning. If the baby does not receive the breast during the day, he begins to ask her more often at night. Such behavior signals that the child is not morally ready to accept the refusal and suffers it painfully.

    Excommunication after a year should also proceed smoothly using the “don't offer, but don't refuse” method. Feeding takes place according to the usual scenario, the chest is given on demand. If the crumb does not ask for a breast, then it is not necessary to impose milk on it. Every day, the baby will be applied to the chest less and less, which will allow for a natural way to complete lactation.

    A gentle way of weaning implies the absence of tough measures: if a baby asks for a breast, it is given, but the initiative does not manifest itself

    Additional recommendations

    Weaning a baby from breastfeeding is much easier if you change his habits. Surely feeding has become a ritual for the long months, so innovations will only be in the hands of mother:

    1. The child perceives many mother's actions as a signal for feeding. For example, the breast was given when mom was sitting in the chair. You must avoid the usual places that encourage the little ones to demand breasts.
    2. In the daytime, you can offer juice or cookies instead of breasts, but at night it is advisable not to experiment with such a substitute.
    3. One and a half kids on the street prefer to play with the rest of the kids, without being distracted by their chests (we recommend reading: what should be the menu of the one and a half year old baby?). It should be more often away from home, so as not to provoke new requests.
    4. The question of how to wean a baby from breastfeeding at night has its own nuances. The termination of night feedings is the hardest. It is advisable to offer an alternative option in the form of reading a book or light strokes.

    It is important to show the baby that her mother's love did not disappear, so that the process of weaning passed without problems. Haste will only prevent the correct construction of tactics, at whatever stage they try to wean the child from breastfeeding.

    Komarovsky warns against the desire to start a sharp weaning, which is fraught with negative consequences. Popular methods will not help at all, only harm. For this reason, you should immediately refuse the offer to leave the child to your parents or spouse and leave for a few days. Sharp weaning will lead to severe stress in the baby and possible psychological problems in the future. He is not only parting with the main source of food, but also with the person most dear to him, and this loss can cause an irreparable blow to the fragile child's psyche.

    How to complete breastfeeding

    “How do I weaned? Left the child for three days to parents. Yes, I pored, but then I calmed down and forgot. ”

    "And my grandmother advised me to spread green paint on the chest, so that it didn’t taste good, so they did."

    “Zelenkoy? Better mustard - immediately refuses. "

    When I decided that it was time to finish breastfeeding, I heard a lot of such advice. But, to put it mildly, I didn’t like any of them: mother and her breasts for a child are not only food, but also comfort, relaxation, caress. To deprive a child in one fell swoop of all this is to suddenly destroy his familiar world. Who knows how in the future such stress in his nervous system will “come around”. Therefore, I began to look for such ways of weaning that would suit us.

    By that time my daughter was about one and a half years old, and she was very attached to her chest. She applied both day and night (probably not worth saying that we slept together since birth), it was only possible to lay her breast, with her daughter almost every snack had finished.

    Of course, I was glad to be so useful and necessary for my child, but my life resources began to slowly deplete. If during the day to get the breast and feed the child was not a problem, then I began to get tired of the endless night attachments. Somehow I noted the time, and it turned out that the longest period we slept at night without a breast was two hours. And so all night: turned on the other side - chest, whimpering - chest, changed diapers - again chest. Neither the motion sickness nor the pacifier daughter perceived at all.

    At that time, I read a lot of literature on breastfeeding, and if Soviet publications claimed that breastfeeding should be for up to a year, then more modern sources, citing WHO, persuaded mothers to feed "as much as a child needs." That is, until he himself refuses - or at least up to 2-3 years.

    My daughter was obviously not going to refuse, and the prospect of feeding more than one year did not inspire me at all. By that time, the daughter ate well any food, the amount of milk in her breast was greatly reduced, in general, she needed her breast not so much for food, but for calm or just like that.

    I began to experience obvious discomfort, since the child’s sucking the breast sometimes began to look like a bad habit, like chewing gum, and I didn’t have a full sleep for a very long time. It was time to roll up, I decided. Well, since the recommendations of others did not suit us, I had to develop my system of weaning.

    First of all, of course, we tried to curtail daytime attachments. It was not very difficult: the inquisitive daughter was well distracted by books, toys and crafts, there were no problems with regular feeding, as I already wrote.

    It remained the most difficult: sleep and night application. How to remove this bundle of "sleep-chest"? How to make it clear to the child that sleep is separate and the chest is separate? Once I read how one witty dad decided to wean his son from a pacifier, nailing it to a wall in the corner at the level of the child’s mouth. And when the son wanted to suck on a pacifier, she was no longer with him at hand, but much further, and he had to go and suck her in the corner, and not in a very comfortable posture. Once gone, another, then forgot, and. it turned out that he did not really need it.

    I decided to do the same. When it came time to go to bed, we went with the daughter not to the bed, but to the chair, which was standing at the opposite wall of the room. I sat in the chair, and put my daughter in front of me. Thus, her breast had to suck while standing. Uncomfortable? And what to do, now we are attached to the chest just like that. Have you eaten? Fine. Now we go to bed with our legs and lay down.

    Zahnykala? Requested a breast? We get up and go to the chair. I had to repeat it more than once or twice, until my daughter finally went to bed herself and fell asleep. At night, my girl woke up, as always, repeatedly, but each time, overcoming a dream, we got up with her and went to the chair. There she sucked with her eyes closed, just fell from what she wanted to sleep, but I did not give her: we eat straight, in an uncomfortable position.

    I could hardly restrain myself, I wanted to sleep, I really wanted to give my chest in bed, but we both had to endure this. During the day and on the second night, we stayed the same, but our daughter woke up for the second night only once. The next night she slept completely. I could not believe: can we both sleep all night now? Is it really only three nights, notice, without tears and tantrums, that was enough for the daughter to leave the breast?

    Of course, these days I tried to pay more attention to the child during the day, and it even seemed to me that she became calmer and more cheerful. Indeed, all the time.

    Nine years later, I was about the same weaning second daughter, with the difference that she was not tied to her breast so much, and everything went even easier and faster.

    So, my method of weaning may well suit those children who:

    • about our age - from one year to one and a half, maybe a little older,
    • slept with mom all my life and fell asleep only with my mother's breast,
    • in the daytime they can calmly be distracted, be satisfied with the explanation that “mother's milk” is over,
    • did not suck on the soother
    • and whose mothers do not want to continue feeding.

    Perhaps my method may not seem too soft, but, in my opinion, it is much more humane than the cruel options that are described at the beginning of my story. Many children just need to help them learn how to fall asleep themselves and stop accompanying the changing of each phase of sleep with sucking.

    In conclusion, I recall the generally accepted norms of weaning: weaning is not in the heat, not in the disease and not in the season of ARVI. Good luck, health and patience to all moms!

    GW or just games?

    Can you please tell the child a year, continue HB, the last time the child eats not so much the breast, and how much is played, it can even bite (Does it make sense to leave the GH. Does not suck the nipple, maybe this way the child replaces the nipple with me? breast? But also a problem, milk, kefir - we don’t drink, only if yogurt with fruit.Night sleep is also not long, you can wake up 2-3 times for sure, it seemed to me that at that age the child should sleep.

    How to survive the "rapid tide" of milk nursing mom?

    How to survive the "rapid tide" of milk nursing mom? Immediately after birth and during the first 2-3 days, colostrum is produced in the breast. It stands out in small quantities, and her mother practically does not feel it. Then by the end of the 3rd, the beginning of the 4th day after birth, the breast begins to grow in size, become more dense and tense. These changes indicate the beginning of the milk arrival process. Often they are accompanied by pain, a slight increase in local temperature.

    Weaning, how does this happen? part 2

    The age of the baby, he should be no younger than 1.5 years, the state of lactation - are there signs of breast involution for some time? To check this, mom needs to part with her baby for a day, for example, leaving him with his grandmother or dad. If in one day no painful filling of the breast is observed, she did not become dense and hot, which means that the woman is ready for weaning. If, after twelve hours, Mom is ready to run to the child so that he can.

    Weaning, how does this happen? part 1

    Weaning a child from the breast, as a rule, seems to mothers a very complex and psychologically painful action. Moreover, there is a public opinion that the older the child, the harder it is to wean him. Therefore, the nursing mother is recommended to stop feeding until the year, because as early as 1.5 years, the child "will not let her go." However, in reality, weaning, which occurred in the physiological timeframe, is painless for both the mother and the child. Lactation, like any other.

    Completion of breastfeeding

    When to end breastfeeding Many pediatricians, both in Russia and abroad, believe that the baby should be fed until he himself refuses mother's milk, which usually happens by the end of the third year of life. WHO recommends breastfeeding for up to two years and continuing to feed further if desired by the mother and baby. This position is often cited by the statistics that children who are breastfed above the average usually have better health and.

    I'll tell you about my electric breastpumps

    A little background: I fought for my lactation from the very beginning. Milk came only on the third day and I managed to feed the baby not the first time. The rest of the milk, of course, was decanted by a breast pump (I had an electric one) and delivered it to the milk reception center to the defendant (there was such a help service in our hospital). When the husband took us home, the expressed milk was given to no one, I decided to freeze it. “In the future it will come in handy,” I thought, and was right, since the second stage.

    Breastfeeding baby

    It is clear that a newborn baby needs breastfeeding. This is the physiology. I'm not going to talk about artificial feeding. it will lead away from the main idea, and it is not about that. A baby needs mother's milk. Little. But over time, it is necessary to wean the baby from breastfeeding. when this is never a newborn baby, but a very big one. When they say to me, they say, the child will decide when it is time. I mean to throw suck breasts, I remember the episode of.

    The child must be taught, educated - then he will not speak out loud about the indecent. Children of 4-5 years do not speak about how they pooped and wiped their ass :)

    In the region of a year and a half, it is already possible to teach a child that the mother gives the breast only in certain places (only at home, for example). Then the child will not ask for a breast at a party, he will ask his mother to go home.

    I myself fed the eldest to two pennies, and the small one - to three exactly. Excommunicated on their own initiative. But at the time of the end of feeding, only morning attachments remained (due to the fact that I like to sleep in the morning, and not to cook porridge). Both sons easily agreed - there were no whims. With the breast, too, there were no problems - slightly poured, and then was blown away.

    Until what age is normal breastfeeding?

    Good day! Baby 2 years 3 months. Without their "titi" can do, but very much in love. Ten days ago, they began to slowly round out - HV only at night and to sleep (and not always), but she was unwell (fistula, tooth ached, temperature) and I myself, to reassure her, suggested GV. Somehow we need to decide to round off this thing, but for both of us the GV is a joy. Here in thought - I feed for a very long time or is it still "normal"? A gynecologist a year ago told me to complete and soon. And what about you?

    How to finish the GW

    Hello! My baby is now 1 year 8 months. In March, I want to finish the GW. How to do it right? I read a lot that it is better to do this gradually, but my son hangs on the system around the clock, so that "gradually" will not work.

    Hello Irina! Glad for your baby, fed long enough. Statistically, he was very lucky.
    What is the request - the answer is: if it doesn’t work “gradually”, then it’s also “correct”, unfortunately.
    In short, I can tell you how to roll up GW without problems for my mother's breast. But there are no ways to finish the GV painlessly for a baby in such a short time, especially considering that the baby “hangs on the system around the clock”. This suggests that your baby is not yet ready for weaning, no matter what his age at the moment.
    So, if you decide that at any cost you want to finish breastfeeding your baby in March, you should stop putting your baby, keep your chest full, but not overfilled, podtsezhivaya it only to ease. Do not allow discomfort - because the breast does not know that the mother has already decided to separate the baby, and for some time will produce milk according to the previous scheme - approximately as often as the baby sucked. The mechanism of lactation reduction in this case is due to the fact that milk comes to a full breast more slowly. We'll have to "keep a finger on the pulse" - to monitor overflow and discomfort in order to avoid milk stagnation. Sage helps some moms to reduce lactation - drinking 1 cup of broth during the day. Some - does not help. It is not recommended to drink hot drinks in large portions.
    It often happens that a mother loses much more freedom at weaning than she gains.
    I advise you to think in advance HOW you will now put your son to bed and whether you are ready to rock your big baby at night, instead of breastfeeding and sleeping further.
    Вот в этой статье очень хорошо описаны типичные ситуации, в которых мама принимает решение об отлучении. Часто утомительное ГВ – не причина, а следствие отношений в паре «мама-малыш» и отлучение ничего в отношениях не изменит. Кормление грудью ребенка старше полутора лет. Психологические и поведенческие особенности
    Каждая мама хочет, чтобы ее малышу было хорошо. К сожалению, в нашей культуре принято воспринимать кормление грудью как «баловство», которому не следует потакать. However, the need to suck is not a bad habit.
    about the need for sucking - how long does it last
    [link-2] The need for sucking is needed not only to eat. It is also a way to calm down, relax and “digest and assimilate” the impressions of the day. If the baby is deprived of the opportunity to relax in his usual way, he will either have to urgently find a replacement for sucking (and that he chooses is unknown), or - impressions and tensions may begin to accumulate, splashing out in unexpected ways.
    To minimize trauma from weaning for the baby — as much bodily contact, hugging — show your son that you still love him, just now it will manifest itself differently. Be sure to talk to him, trying to find a decent explanation of weaning, not only for him, but also for yourself. And let's hope that the baby will understand you and be satisfied with what is.
    about schooling fall asleep alone. Neuroscience Research
    It will be nevertheless better if there is a time resource to make weaning more smoothly, gradually reducing the number of attachments, leaving sucking only for dreams and in the morning. Then it will be possible to limit the duration of sucking to sleep with some kind of persuasion, for example: "let's agree that you suck while I sing you a song." Then sucking for a dream can be replaced with some pleasant ritual for the baby, for example, with a massage, reading a book, a song or just lying around.

    Imagine a loving couple. Both love each other very much and love to kiss very much. She is confident that such an idyll will last forever. But once at a meeting, the beloved suddenly begins to dodge her lips, limiting herself to shaking hands and patting her shoulder. At the same time, he assures that he still loves her, just decided that they had already grown out of “calf tenderness”, and “already enough”. Will the girl believe her lover that nothing has changed in their relationship?

    In a word, there must be very good reasons for sharp weaning.
    I wish you to weigh all the arguments and make the most correct decision for yourself about the timing and methods of weaning.

    Day in the life of a consultant on GV part1

    I always wanted children from the fifth grade for sure. And the profession at the same time chose, associated with children - the teacher. She graduated from the institute, which, during her studies, became a university, but then she took her life aside, was engaged in something completely different. When my daughter was born, and then my son, I realized that I would not return to my previous work - the children turned the world upside down. It took about a year to figure out what I want to do next. So far, once a girlfriend, missing from the horizon for about half a year, did not make her happy.

    All parents somehow face

    All parents somehow face this question: how to put your baby to sleep? Restless little ones are ready to run and jump day and night and do not want to go to their bed in any way. Making useless: screams, tears, tantrums and no effect. When the child is still small, he does not understand this elementary thing: that when you want to sleep, you need to lie down in your cot, close your eyes and fall asleep. The kid, on the contrary, begins to frolic, then act up, yawn, rub his eyes, and maybe.

    And how do your children suck?

    No, well, I understand everything, as soon as they do not suck - they both clap their hands into the eyes-nose, and unscrew the other nipple, and pat themselves, and put their fingers at the same time with the breast into the mouth, well, everything happened. But to suck the breast, and at the same time with her hand pulled out of her mouth - this has not happened yet. Such a "sucking into tension" is obtained))) This is still a pleasure, I want to say, given that so we have problems with capture. And if you do not cut the nails in time, then the scratched chest is also obtained. I have to hold my hand.

    How to wean a baby from breastfeeding? (continuation of the continuation)

    Ways of weaning a child from the breast It is very rare that a baby refuses breastfeeding on its own and is absolutely painless. For most mothers, the question of how to wean a child is very, very relevant. For many years, women have tried a variety of ways to wean a child from the breast. Some of them are very effective, others do not bring any result, and still others openly harm the psyche of the child. A young mother can get confused while standing.

    How to wean a baby from breastfeeding? (continued)

    When is a child's weaning contraindicated? In addition to the lactation stage, there are several cases when it is extremely undesirable to wean a child and, moreover, can harm his health and development. Having made the decision to stop breastfeeding, be sure to pay attention to the factors described below: Do not wean a child from the breast in early spring when a thaw occurs, because at this time epidemics of ARVI and influenza usually begin. Baby, devoid of mother's milk, much stronger.

    Teach to eat with a spoon

    Go from my mother's chest to a normal diet? In the distant past, the child was breastfed up to 2 - 3 years. Today, this trend is back. Before you begin to wean the baby from breast milk, you should make sure that he is ready for it. The average testimony says that the baby’s need for sucking decreases from 9 months to 3.5 years. This process is individual. But if you already took to excommunicate the child, then you need to do everything gradually. First, replace one day feed.

    My first bad habit: dummy.

    There are many different contradictions in raising a child, starting from his very birth and ending with his growing up. In this article we will talk about one of the most significant problems in the upbringing and care of a child, which becomes in front of parents in his very first days of life. Dummy - for or against? Recently, it has become fashionable in the upbringing of children to abandon this or that, once necessary attribute of upbringing. Today, very often we hear that people give up.

    Our excommunication) Hurray.

    So .. I never thought that I would feed for so long, I couldn’t imagine such a thing at all, but it turned out this way) Plus, my friends and sisters (and the kids were the same age, they all fed for a long time, along with us) of birth, our ZuuuUBYY, who climbed very hard, especially 5s. with tantrums, whims, pain. saved his chest, at night I literally crammed him and he calmed down, it was necessary for him (who knows, he would understand) .. and now 2.2 climbed 3 5s, waiting for 4, tired of GW.

    When to wean a child from the chest

    For each case, parting with the breast falls at different times. In some, at the end of the first year of life (some psychologists claim that this is a good moment), in others - even in the third year. The decision is yours You will know when the right moment comes. For example, you can naturally use your child’s ability to get rid of things. Watching yourself, like a child - it is important that you take into account all the factors. Yes, indeed, but begin to do without breast already when you enter into the diet of the child, other products.

    Listen to yourself and then feel how to do it.

    It seems to you that you don’t want anything else, how to free your baby from breast dependence, but at the same time you can feel terrible, weaning her from your baby. Do not think, however, that you do not give him your love. It remains - now you will show it differently.

    You may feel regret for the loss of intimacy with him. This is a natural feeling.

    Not sharply and completely, but gradually. Tactics of small steps is the best way for a child. For you - because your breasts will produce less milk. Start by eliminating individual feedings, at the beginning of this at lunch time. Then leave more and more. It is most difficult for a child to stop sucking in the evening and at night. But be consistent - you can not not feed one night, and the next to do it. If you break, you will be angry at yourself, and the baby will be miserable.

    Gradual weaning

    The best way to wean off is a gradual one. For its implementation you will not need medication. Simply replace breastfeeding with human food (adequate portion). So, gradually, refuse to breastfeed during the day. But continue to give the baby a breast for the night and the very night. Then offer the kid and for dinner an appetizing gruel, do not feed at night. This is especially difficult to do, because most babies fall asleep at their beloved Sisi, sucking my mother's milk all over. But believe me, your intransigence is worth it. Then stop feeding at night. It usually does not do without a fight. A child may be hysterical. Try to give the baby a bottle of baby kefir or an adapted mixture, keep the pacifier ready if the baby sucks it. In short, you just have to go through it. At some point you will catch yourself thinking that it is easier to spit on everything and give a breast, and everything will end. However, remember, this problem will not be solved by itself, and you will return to your trough again. So, we gain patience and go straight to our goal - wean from the chest. Just remember, the amount of milk you have already decreased, and spontaneously, you are already at the beginning of the final stage, you need to suffer a little more!
    Weaning from the breast is a process through which each mother passes and each one has almost the same questions:

    • At what age can you quickly wean a child from the breast?
    • How to wean as painlessly as possible for the baby
    In order for the process to go faster before stopping the night feedings, it is necessary to demonstrate and tell the child that it is necessary to say goodbye to the Cis. Here the popular rumor offers many options. For example, you should start walking with your child in closed clothes so that access to the body, as they say, is closed. Distract by any means from the chest. Stock up on everything your child loves. Offer him tasty and healthy food. One day, the baby will give up trying to reach your breasts.

    Options, methods and methods of weaning

    I would love to apply the gradual method of not breastfeeding to myself and my baby. But we had a very neglected case. The child is a year and a half, the relationship with the system is just fabulous. For example, after a nap, a daughter took off my bra, bared her breasts and pressed against her, apparently, she was the personification of love for her, and the baby reciprocated her. That's it. In the middle of the day, she could come to me, put me on a sofa and very persistently show with gestures that she urgently needed to suck milk. At night, feeding continued. I was exhausted at the end: it’s no joke, I’m not going to sleep normally for a year and a half (that is, soundly). Therefore, I advise those moms who are not going to feed their children under three years old to wean children of them GRADUALLY before the age of YEARS. Turned 11 months and start the process, get by with small tears.

    After a year old, children are instantly psychologically attached to their breasts, as if they were a month old and they could never get enough of mother’s milk. If you, like me, are going to stop breastfeeding with medications, I strongly advise you to contact a breast doctor. There are many nuances and side effects when taking pills. Each situation is very individual. And not always recommendations from an article on the Internet, or posts from forums, will help you. I started taking bromocreptin.

    The list of drugs of such action is very extensive: parlodel, microforlin, turinal, norcolut, acetomepregenol, primolyuta-nor, cabergoline. This is a hormonal drug, which in the first day should be taken half a tablet in the morning and evening, and in the following days one tablet in the morning and evening. And so - two weeks. What can I say about this medicine: of all the side effects that were written in the instructions for use (and even there was a stroke and myocardial infarction), I felt nausea, headache, fatigue, drowsiness, dry mouth and nasal congestion. On the fifth day of taking this medication, I was already beginning to think how much more my body can sustain. Feeling a tightness in my chest, I rushed to the breast specialist. She examined her breasts, and said that there was no lactostasis, no mastitis, but the process went in that direction. Therefore, I advise everyone again - contact a specialist if your option to stop breastfeeding is medication. Mammologist prescribed a new drug - Destinex. It should have been consumed only for two days: half a pill in the morning and evening. I sighed with relief: well, finally my torment is over.

    On the advice of the doctor, I also did a compress on the chest in the morning and in the evening: 1 tablespoon of Dimexidum was mixed with five tablespoons of novocaine. Hold for 20 minutes, no longer worth it. The chest from this compress calms down, pain is relieved. But this is all a temporary effect. For the night on the advice of a friend decided to use the advice of traditional medicine. Taking one tablespoon of honey and rye flour (sold in stores), I kneaded a tortilla. I put it on the painful places of the chest. It was convenient to use for this purpose a nursing bra with opening flaps. In the morning the chest was in a much better shape.

    To check that the milk in the breast is over, you can try to decant a couple of drops: if the color of the liquid is not white, but transparent, then you can be congratulated - the milk is over. At the same time around in the area of ​​the areola possible seals and pain: it is internal edema. In order to eliminate them or prevent their appearance, it is necessary to reduce the volume of liquid strongly, stop drinking hot tea, soups, juices. It is best to go straight to the Mastofeton herbal tea; you can replace it with any diuretic supplement. Personally, I recommend the leaves of lingonberry. Every three or four days, show up at a specialist’s appointment to avoid complications. Restriction in fluid intake should be observed until your breasts are not of pregenerative size, soft to the touch, without the slightest hint of seals and lumps.

    So briefly - throwing tips to breastfeed

    During the weaning period, be sure to wear a bra, it will support a painful chest. Previously advised to bandage the chest with an elastic bandage (now abandoned)

    If the milk has become very strong, and the breast has become stone (usually on the second or third day), to alleviate your condition, I recommend taking a warm shower and while the warm water will relax and massage tense breasts, express some of the milk, but not completely. You need to strain to the feeling of comfort. Often I do not advise doing this, otherwise you will start producing milk again.

    If you, while breastfeeding, dreamed of re-drinking foaming cold beer, I’ll grieve you: you have to wait a little longer. It is better to do this a month after the end of lactation. Otherwise, beer can provoke milk production again. And in general, do not overdo it with the liquid 3-4 weeks after stopping breastfeeding.

    Doctors do not advise to leave breastfeeding on hot days: children can catch intestinal infection, mothers will be very difficult to bypass a smaller amount of fluid. In addition, in summer people are prone to edema, even if they do not abuse water and beverages.

    When the milk in your chest burns out, you can experience very unpleasant sensations: from tingling to pulling pain. It usually stops on the seventh day. Regular cabbage leaves laid on the chest will have a very positive effect on your well-being.

    To remove the discomfort, you can take no-silos (one tablet twice a day). The nervous system will support ordinary valerian.
    Traditional medicine proposes to suppress lactation to combine the use of tea from two different herbs: a diuretic and medicinal sage. Sage, according to the healers, inhibits lactation, and also has an antimicrobial and tonic effect.

    If you follow all the tips given in this article without neglecting your health, you can stop lactation without serious problems for you and your child. But if suddenly a few months after the end of lactation you have milk, do not hesitate and contact your gynecologist for help.

    How to compensate for the lack of milk

    Stay close to the baby and show him a lot of love. Well, turn on the attention of the child from Sisi.

    In the second half of the year, breastfeeding still gives the child a feeling of confidence and comfort after a painful experience exploring the world. Feeding is gradually being replaced with other meals and attractive activities. And emotional needs, to embrace, by talking, kissing.

    The second year of life is a time of greater and greater independence, but the breast may still be important for the child. Instead, offer your child more adult ways of expressing love, for example, reading books together, reading fairy tales, more often hug.

    What not to do when weaning from breastfeeding

    Weaning from breastfeeding, hide from the baby ie leave him alone. For him, it will be stressful. Being with you, it is easier to tolerate complex emotions, and will enter a new phase without a sense of loss. He will know that lack of breasts is not lack of love. Этот трудный шаг по направлению к взрослой жизни будет делать вместе с мамой.

    Если Вам покажется, что Вы слишком рано отказались кормить ребенка грудью, хорошо было бы к нему вернуться. Может об этом свидетельствовать неблагоприятные изменения в поведении ребенка: частые пробуждения в течение ночи, плохое настроение и нытье в течение дня, сосание пальца, страх перед долгой разлуки с мамой, агрессия к братьев и сестер. If the baby cannot accept changes, maybe it is worth compromising and respecting the needs of the child? And try again in a few days or a few weeks. Then everything can go without problems, have patience, this is your favorite crumb.